From the outside, everything seems in order. If someone looked at your life right now, they would say everything is fine. But you know it isn’t. You have a job, good friends, activities that keep you going, and responsibilities to fulfill, yet you know that this “everything” is not truly well. Inside, you feel that something is off.
It feels familiar, doesn’t it? That sense of emptiness, which is hard to explain but impossible to ignore, that follows you every day and makes you feel as if you’re holding together a life that doesn’t quite feel like yours.
You ask yourself questions you don’t know how to articulate. You live with an inexplicable inner discomfort that doesn’t disappear even when you change jobs, cities, or routines. You function, you deliver, you respond, but you feel exhausted in a way that rest doesn’t resolve.
And yes, you sense there is a direction that belongs to you, but you don’t know how to reach it. It’s becoming harder and harder to ignore that underlying feeling, and you often find yourself wondering: Is this all there is?
What you’re feeling is not weakness. It’s not a temporary confusion. It’s a sign that something within you is asking for space, direction, and permission to exist.
You don’t need someone to tell you what to do; you need a place where you can listen to yourself again. A space where your decisions come from who you truly are, not from what is expected of you. And when that happens, you begin to feel more clarity, calm, and direction.
That is what you will find here.
Born in the Netherlands, rooted in Tenerife. I’m a woman who knows exactly what it’s like to live from the outside in, trying to fit into a life that never truly feels like your own.
For many years, I did what I was “supposed” to do: I studied, worked, built relationships, tried to be good enough. But inside, there was a persistent feeling that something didn’t fit. That I didn’t fit.
At 32, everything collapsed at once.
My job, my relationship, my home, my financial stability… At the time, it felt like a loss, but what looked like a catastrophe was actually the beginning of something new. Because when there was nothing left to hold together, I could finally ask myself what I truly wanted to build.
What came after wasn’t a straight path. It was an honest process of real self‑discovery: coaching, therapy, training, personal development, and decisions that felt scary but turned out to be the right ones. In 2014, I started a new life built on believing in myself and my worth. I discovered my vocation and, since then, I’ve accompanied other women who feel what I once felt.
Today, after more than eight years of experience and with the EIA Practitioner accreditation, my work is grounded in something no manual can teach: having been where you are and having found the way back to myself.
Let me walk with you through your own process of personal expansion. You don’t have to endure any longer but are allowed to start choosing yourself. It’s time to return to you.
Where you can be exactly who you are, without needing to justify yourself or have everything figured out before you begin.
We work together so you can clearly see what you already know deep inside, but haven’t yet been able to express.
No detours, no generic answers. My style is warm, clear, and deep. Always adapted to you and to your process.
There is no standard program. Each process is built from who you are and what you need at every moment.
I don’t promise miracles or shortcuts. What I can tell you is that you’re not here to “fix yourself”. You’re here to return to yourself.
I offer you a real and profound process to help you transform the way you relate to yourself.
Mirjam es una excelente coach, la mejor que he tenido. Ofrece una combinación única de pensamiento de conjunto y holístico, junto con un estilo de trabajo sistemático, lógico, estructurado y claro, algo que valoré muchísimo.
Recomendaría a Mirjam muy encarecidamente a cualquier persona que busque una coach perceptiva, reflexiva, orientada a resultados y estructurada para ayudarte a identificar y alcanzar sus objetivos vitales.
Aarti (54)
Profesora de Gobernanza Ambiental Global en la Universidad de Wageningen
Como artista autónoma, me costaba mantener mi barco creativo a flote porque soy tanto la ejecutiva como la creativa en una sola persona.
Trabajar con Mirjam me ayudó a ver mi propio reflejo, tanto las partes buenas como las difíciles. Me ayudó a reconocer mis límites y a entender mi situación de una manera realista, pero sobre todo me mostró cuánto había logrado y me dio fuerza para convertirme en mi mejor versión.
El enfoque de Mirjam es cálido, profesional, realista y lleno de recursos. Convierte tus dificultades en su misión y ofrece soluciones personalizadas que realmente funcionan. Cariñosa y generosa, su acompañamiento es una herramienta poderosa para guiarte en tus mayores desafíos.
Ema (31)
Artista y fotógrafa autónoma
su enfoque suave crearon una sensación de seguridad desde la primera sesión. Trabajamos en el equilibrio entre la vida y el trabajo y en la integración de diferentes partes de mí en el entorno laboral. Después de solo unas pocas sesiones, los cambios fueron significativos.
Laura (31)
Violonchelista profesional
Mirjam me acompañó en su trayectoria de coaching, Do Your Dreams, con ejercicios muy útiles que me desafiaron a pensar en grande y a afinar lo que quiero aportar en mi trabajo. Ahora tengo una idea más clara de cómo comunicar lo que ofrezco a posibles nuevas clientas y de cómo abordar algunas inseguridades relacionadas con la construcción de mi práctica.
Sentí que Mirjam comprendía muy bien lo que necesitaba para poder dar mi siguiente paso. Tiene una forma de trabajar motivadora y abierta. Y puedo recomendar su coaching a cualquiera que quiera hacer aquello con lo que sueña.
Sophie (41)
Lectora de aura y sanadora
Antes de comenzar este proceso de coaching, me sentía estancada en mi trabajo y en mis pensamientos; la idea de empezar un nuevo proyecto con ilusión parecía inalcanzable. Ahora noto que las cosas vuelven a ponerse en marcha: he comenzado un nuevo proyecto con confianza y me siento mucho más fuerte a nivel profesional.
Lo que me llevo de este proceso es que ahora sé regular mejor mis emociones y mi estado de ánimo, tengo más claro lo que quiero y necesito y, por lo tanto, puedo dar forma a mi próximo paso profesional de manera más consciente.
Sare (41)
ICT Product Owner
If you feel this is your moment, we can begin with a conversation in a space just for us.
No pressure, no commitment. Just you, me, and 45 minutes to see whether this path makes sense for you.
An online conversation between us · No cost · No strings attached
The professional rigor behind a kind of guidance that also comes from the heart.
Master’s Degree in Humanities (M.A.)
Language & Culture Studies, 2007
Greek & Latin Philology
Preparatory Diploma, 2001
EIA Practitioner Coach
Accredited 2025–2030
Embodied Vision™ Coach
Certified, 2023
Manifestation Coach
Certified, 2022
Soulful & Professional Coaching (Postgraduate)
Certified, 2025
15 years in personal development
Combined with 8 years of experience as a coach