I accompany sensitive, intelligent, and committed women who feel that the time has come to live in alignment with their truth, make decisions based on their own values, and stop building a life for others.
I don’t promise shortcuts. I do promise that when you start choosing from within yourself, something truly shifts.
Clarity to know what you want, where you’re going, and why. Without needing anyone’s validation.
Letting go of decisions driven by fear, logic, or expectations. Beginning to trust what you feel.
Your sensitivity isn’t a problem; it’s a compass. You’ll learn to use it as your starting point.
Not as a distant destination, but as a present orientation. Knowing why you do what you do changes how you live it.
Feeling excitement again for what you do, recovering your spark, and waking up with a genuine desire to start the day.
Learning to set boundaries without guilt frees up a level of energy you didn’t know you were spending.
Less self‑pressure, more self‑compassion. Without losing your rigor, just without everything feeling so heavy.
When you stop adapting to everything and everyone, the relationships that remain are the ones that truly nourish you.
Not the one expected of you. The one that grows from who you are, what you value, and the life you want to build.
That quiet sense of peace that appears when what you feel, want, and do are aligned. And things start to make sense.
Each journey is tailored to you. Choose the format that aligns with where you are in your life and what you need at this moment.
Online · 3 months
A structured process to begin organising what you feel, gaining clarity, and making decisions that are more aligned with who you are. Bi‑weekly sessions to help you move forward step by step, with focus and real support. Ideal if you’re in a moment of change and need to start from a solid foundation.
Online · Tailored
A fully personalised coaching process lasting between 6 and 12 months. A deep space entirely adapted to you. No rigid timelines, no rush, but with clear direction. Perfect for women who feel that the moment has come to go further, sustain real change, and work with the depth they need.
In-person · Tenerife
To step outside your usual context, see yourself from a new perspective, make important decisions, and reconnect with what truly matters. A one‑to‑one retreat designed just for you, in an environment that invites you to genuinely pause. You’ll live a unique experience that will allow you to return to your everyday life with a clear sense of direction.
I didn’t arrive at coaching through a book or an early calling. I arrived after losing myself for years trying to fit into a life that wasn’t mine, and after having to rebuild everything from scratch at the age of 32.
That experience, together with more than 15 years of personal development, 8 years accompanying women through different processes, and my training as an accredited coach, is what sustains my work.
I don’t accompany you from theory. I accompany you from knowing what it’s like to be where you are, and having found the way out.
Professional accreditation 2025–2030
A holistic approach: body, mind, and feeling.
Mindfulness, Gestalt, NLP, NVC, somatic work, and more
Online coaching for women in moments of change.
Mirjam is an excellent coach and the best that I have had. She offers a unique combination of holistic, big‑picture thinking and a systematic, logical, structured, and clear working style that I truly appreciated.
I would recommend Mirjam very highly to anyone looking for a perceptive, thoughtful, results-oriented, and structured coach to help you with identifying and realizing life goals.
Aarti (54)
Professor of Global Environmental Governance at Wageningen University
As a freelance artist, I struggled to keep my creative boat afloat because I am both the executive and the creative in one.
Working with Mirjam helped me see my own reflection with the good and bad parts. She helped me see my limits and understand my situation in a realistic manner, but most of all, she made me see how much I accomplished and empowered me to be my best self.
Mirjam’s approach is warm, professional, realistic, and resourceful. She makes your struggles her mission and gives personalized solutions that actually work. Caring and generous, Mirjam’s approach is a great tool to guide you in your biggest challenges.
Ema (31)
Artist and Freelance Photographer
Mirjam is a wonderful coach. Her voice and gentle approach created a sense of safety from the very first session on. We worked on work-life balance and the integration of different parts of me in the workplace. After just a few sessions, the changes were significant.
Laura (31)
Professional Cellist
Mirjam guided me through her coaching trajectory, Do Your Dreams, with helpful exercises, challenging me to think bigger and fine-tune what I am bringing into my work. I have a clearer idea now of how to communicate what I have to offer to potential new clients and how to tackle some insecurities regarding building my practice.
I felt Mirjam understood well what was needed for me to take my next step forward. She has a motivating and open approach. And I can recommend her coaching to anyone looking to do what they dream about.
Sophie (41)
Aurareader and Healer
Before starting this coaching journey, I felt stuck in my work and in my thoughts; the idea of starting a new assignment with a sense of enjoyment seemed out of reach. Now I notice that things are moving again: I have started a new assignment with confidence and feel much stronger professionally.
What I take away from the coaching journey is that I am better able to regulate my emotions and mood, have a clearer sense of what I want and need, and can therefore shape my next career step more consciously.
I experienced Mirjam’s guidance as very pleasant: down-to-earth, engaged, calm, and proactive. She explains things clearly, summarizes well, and encourages you to work things out for yourself in a supportive way. Her coaching style is not hierarchical, but supportive and holistic, which made me feel truly free to address difficult issues and emotions.
This coaching journey was incredibly valuable to me.
Sare (41)
ICT Product Owner
Mirjam is one of the most perceptive and wise people I have had the good fortune to meet in my life.
My goals for this coaching trajectory were to better understand what I truly valued in my professional and personal life, how to improve my work-life balance, and how to be at peace with my choices.
Her systematic approach to the coaching trajectory, with the use of specific tools and strategies, is combined with her uncanny ability to always ask the right questions. This is a perfect combination. I ended each coaching session feeling that it had been exactly about the issues that were uppermost in my mind at that moment.
I would wish for anyone to have the possibility to work with Mirjam, to find out what really drives them, how to be at peace with what is, and how to make concrete, positive changes to realize what one wants. She is a truly inspiring person to work with.
Aarti (54)
Professor of Global Environmental Governance at Wageningen University
Mirjam’s coaching was especially effective because it was so well attuned to me personally. She had a clear plan for each session, but also gave space whenever I wanted to move in a different direction. In the following session, we would pick up my coaching question again, and each time she used my own words and examples so that everything truly resonated with me.
Louise (39)
From the very beginning, I felt seen and heard by Mirjam. Her calm, empathetic presence and ability to truly listen made me feel safe and at ease. She asked the right questions, knew when to slow down, and helped me gain valuable insights through visualizations and reflective exercises.
What I particularly appreciate is her genuine commitment and the way she helped me look at myself with more self-compassion. Thanks to her guidance, I learned to cope better with feelings of restlessness, to consciously create moments of calm, and I gained practical tools to shift negative thoughts. The combination of her professional approach and warm personality has brought about real change.
Mirjam is a coach who touches you, inspires you to take action, and helps you grow. I am grateful for the journey I had the opportunity to take with her.
Martina
Mirjam coached and supported me during the first few weeks of my move to Sweden. This coaching journey gave me valuable insights into myself and how I approach life. I learned how important it is to stay true to my core values.
I also developed greater awareness of the way I communicate – in particular, the importance of speaking from an “I” perspective and clearly expressing my boundaries and needs, especially in professional situations. Mirjam helped me recognize this and gave me practical tools to put it into practice.
What makes Mirjam special is her warm personality, calm energy, and pleasant way of communicating. She creates a safe environment in which I quickly felt comfortable. She asks helpful questions and uses exactly the right tools to help you truly move forward.
I am grateful for her guidance and would wholeheartedly recommend her coaching.
Linda (35)
Before starting the retreat, I often struggled to be the best version of myself. The retreat helped me strengthen my positive mindset and focus more on an optimistic outlook on life.
Now I feel more empowered and motivated to go for what I want.
Célina (23)
Freelance German Teacher and Online Tutor
The retreat in Tenerife was a very positive experience, and I received many insights:
Mirjam is a pleasant person. You immediately feel at ease with her. She listens well and asks the right questions to take you one step further. I feel a lot better than before I went.
Suzanne (38)
I came to the retreat because I struggled with some limiting beliefs that stopped me from taking action towards my dreams. During the retreat, I was able to bend them into something positive and change my point of view.
Now I feel motivated and full of positive energy to work on my dream life.
Riana (31)
Yoga and Meditation Teacher
We meet and explore whether there’s a good fit for working together.
We clarify what you need and choose the program that best aligns with you.
We plan the sessions and start the process at your pace.
Session by session, with exercises and reflections in between, the change starts to take root.
Coaching does not treat pathologies nor works from diagnosis. It focuses on the present and the future: who you are, what you want, and how to get there. It’s a process of self‑knowledge, decision‑making, and action oriented toward concrete results.
If you feel that something in your life doesn’t quite fit, even if you can’t name exactly what it is, and if you have unanswered questions about your work, your relationships, or your direction in life, or if you simply feel that it’s time to make decisions that are more centered on you, coaching may be exactly what you need.
Sessions can be conducted in English, Dutch, and Spanish. We’ll work in the language you feel most comfortable expressing yourself in.
It depends on the program you choose and your goals. The introductory program lasts 3 months with bi‑weekly sessions. The transformation package spans 6 to 12 months with greater flexibility. We’ll define it together in the initial session.
Yes. All coaching programs can be paid in installments. If you have concerns about the investment, mention it in the initial session, and we’ll find a way that works for you.
The initial session exists precisely for that: so you can feel whether there’s alignment before committing. And if at any point during the process you need to pause, we talk about it. My support adapts to your reality — not the other way around.
Let’s have a first conversation to see whether this journey fits you and the moment you’re in.
An online conversation between us · No cost · No strings attached